Life Is What You Make It, Is It Really?

Few days back I went through a novel "Life is What you make it" by Preeti Shenoy a beautiful novel depicting life of a meritorious girl who makes it to the best management school of country and all of a sudden she loses all she has achieved and ends up in medical institute and then story stretches telling us about her recovery and how she makes it with her courage and determination and spends a normal life. But the million dollar question is everyone have a choice on how he/she would live his/her life or rather we are dictated by our destiny.
Well few will say yes, it is upto us how we want to lead our life. Everyone of us can and have choice to make our life a hell or heaven.
But what I feel is,it is very difficult to make our life What we want it to be, as it is governed by thousands of factor which are not in our hand.

Last 6 months

It have been quite a long time, since I wrote something and really this 6 months had been most crucial part of my life including some experience which have changed my perception of life. This time should have been the best time of my college life. But something came up, making it more than a hell for me. Now, I don't know what will happen next, whether I would have to live with it just like I have to with my shadow or I will get some light so that I can get away with it. This I cannot forecast because it is something where logic's don't work.
But this period had me much stronger, much tolerant and much else.
Well, now I will make it a little regular for all my readers out their.